NOT JUST BINGO
My job as am activities coordinator!!
Thursday 15 November 2012
You never asked me
I lived in a 'bin' for most of my days
Away from the world, out of public gaze
You fed me, you bathed me and put me to bed
And while you were doing it nothing was said
You never asked me if I wanted to play
If I wanted to sing, if I wanted to pray
You never asked me to come into town
If I was happy or feeling down
Treated the same as a table or chair
An object, as if I weren't there.
And lo and behold everything changed
No one asked me - was already arranged
Come to our world you do have the right
Live beside us - but keep out of sight
You have to be normal
And do what we do
You mustn't look different
You mustn't be you
You never asked me where I wanted to live
In a house, in a flat or even who with
The old days are gone and life will be good
You will be treated the way that you should
So I got a new bedroom and painted it blue
It's not like the bin, it's bright and it's new
And the staff came along as they knew me so well
Different walls, different views
Same staff, same hell
You never asked me 'what would you like to eat?'
You never asked me 'would you like your tea sweet?'
You never asked me 'would you like to go out?'
You only got cross when I started to shout
And you gave me a label that said I was bad
And you gave me some pills that made me feel mad
And you locked up the kitchen so I couldn't choose
And you bought nice things that I couldn't use
And you sat in my chair, used my TV remote
And my life only existed in the notes that you wrote
Cornflakes for breakfast, two sugars in tea
A shower in the morning, a baths not for me
Knock on the door when you come to my room
Don't just open it, don't just assume
Open the wardrobe and show me my clothes
Ugh! baggy old trousers, I won't wear those
Cornflakes for breakfast, two sugars in tea
A shower in the morning, a baths not for me
Knock on the door when you come to my room
Don't just open it, don't just assume
Open the wardrobe and show me my clothes
Ugh! baggy old trousers, I won't wear those
Cornflakes for breakfast, two sugars in tea
A shower in the morning, a baths not for me
Knock on the door when you come to my room
Don't just open it, don't just assume
Open the wardrobe and show me my clothes
Ugh! baggy old trousers, I won't wear those
I'd like to make lunch, a soup or a stew
Then sit down and eat it, join me too?
I'm not very good but I'm sure we can try
Please can you teach me and explain to me why
And when I come home at the end of the day
I need someone to talk to, listen to what I say
I might go to bed or sit up for a while
Please keep me company, please make me smile.
I want all the things that you have in your life
A home, a job, maybe a wife
I want to have friends and have fun and a laugh
I can't do this without paid staff
But that doesn't mean I value you less
I need your support, please care and invest In me
We're not different
We're the same you see
I've always known
But you never asked me
Dignity - How we don't do it here
Excuse me nurse my mum needs a hand
She needs the toilet not a bedpan.
Not again she's just done a wee
She will have to wait I'm busy you see.
Excuse me nurse its my mum she's bursting,
its driving her mad
Just tell her to do it she's wearing a pad.
My poor mum she's in such a state
I wouldn't wish this on my worst mate.
Excuse me nurse my mum is all wet
She's very embarrassed and so upset.
The nurse replied with a disgruntled huff
For heavens sake I'll get the stuff.
Excuse me nurse can you close the curtain
The visitors can see in that's for certain.
My poor mum is laid there
Totally naked completely bare.
Excuse me nurse we need a chat
In a minute I'll be right back.
The nurse I discovered had gone to tea
Not bothered she'd stripped mum
of her dignity.
A Poem for Dignity and Pride
Dignity and Pride two little words we say,
Yet we each and every one of us,
Expect to find them,
Every single day,
Some times when you are feeling low,
With little self esteem,
Those two words can be very elusive,
You all know what I mean,
When you help me through the day,
And In my hour of need,
If we work closely as a team,
I am sure we will succeed,
When you help me through my day,
As we work side by side,
With your friendly help and caring smile,
You can help me keep my dignity and pride,
So when you're helping others,
As we do from day to day,
Always be supportive,
With the things you do and say,
From all our tasks with service users,
Working side by side,
Always keep in mind,
Their dignity and pride
The Dignity Tree
I'm planting my first seed today
The seed of dignity
In time you'll see my seed will grow
And grow into a tree
A tree fulfilled with knowledge
A plant for all to see
What being a dignity champion
Really means to me
It's a leaf with an idea on
It's an idea I'd like to share
It's an inspirational idea
It's a leaf to show I care
The tree will always be there
Long after I have gone
To stand up for dignity in care
A challenge to be won
I know you will support me
And I know you'll love the tree
It's not just a tree you know
It's what dignity means to me
I'm Here..." - A poem about Dignity in Care for the person that matters
I am still a person although my actions and words may not make sense
It's just something's seem complicated to me, doesn't mean that I'm stupid or dense
I ask you don't treat me as another number a person in care
I'm a person who needs to be treated with respect and dignity that's fair
I am frightened and confused and not sure what's going on
So please don't assume that my faculties' have gone
There are times when I can recognise special people and their faces
And remember special thoughts and memories of times and places
I need your help, your care and complete reassurance
To know that I can spend the rest of my days happy getting through this
I was like you once, you know, and wish I was still today
But unfortunately life has dealt the cards and I've ended up this way
So please understand I'm not stupid, nor a child or mad
I'm just a person who is confused, frustrated and sad
And so I am asking please be there for me and make me smile
Make the rest of my life happy, special and worth while
I Laugh With You Sometimes
I laugh with you sometimes
and say foolish things,
I try to be brave
and think you won't notice,
I am crying inside.
My words muddle up,
though I know what I mean
I get so confused
I wish I could scream!
I am crying inside.
I am in the wrong body,
my minds not my own.
I live in a large house
and long for my home.
I am crying inside.
I forget the last minute
''What was it you said?
i remember my childhood
but can't find my bed!
I am crying inside.
Where are my family?
my Father my Mother?
all the friends I have known
where has time gone to?
I am crying inside.
I long for my last bed
my pillow the grave.
yet i cling on , I am so afraid.
''Won't somebody hear me!''
I am dying.
I am crying inside.'
Heather Macken. 1994.
This is a poem about dignity in care!!
Friday 9 November 2012
Guy fawkes celebrations
We held a sparkler party which many people enjoyed.
We also made guys which meant lots of laughter was had with staff and residents getting involved. As you can see from the picture below they took pride of place in the corridor for everyone to see.
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